Monday, July 01, 2013

The Tipping Point

Poor, woefully neglected blog. Did I really let the whole month of June slide through my fingers without one single post? Sad, sad day. Apparently four kids is my tipping point to make me start to (inadvertently) cut out parts of my life that don't include food, clothing, and sleep. And school. And church. And some fun, too.

Okay, so the blog has suffered. But we're back in the saddle, looking back down the last month and a half and wondering how to catch up on recording memories without making such a massive blog post that it makes the internet crash.

The highlights:
--Mason is sitting up like a champ, which means he plays so much better by himself. He has this orange basket of toys that he loves. Favorites include his moose from Grammy and Papa (which also clips onto his carseat and goes everywhere with us), his fisher price phone (old-school style with the rotary dial), a stuffed elephant that is the same brand as the moose (a gift from someone very special), and a bee that sings.




--We graduated a first grader and a pre-k-er. We celebrated the end of school by surprising the kids with a trip to Cracker Barrel. Sonlight Core A: done!



--Mason is eating baby food. His first reaction was typical: What is this vile thing?!? But now he likes it.


--The three big kids and I went camping with my family in Tennessee over Memorial Day weekend. It was SO COLD. In the 30's at night. I dressed the kids in two sets of footies each, hats, extra socks, etc. And we were still cold. We only made it one night and came home late the next night, but it was still a whole lot of fun.




--We've been enjoying summer without school (much school, anyway. Still doing math and reading.). I've been doing a lot of research and have a plan in place for next year.

--Swimming! This was a HUGE summer goal for me: to get the big boys swimming. After several unsuccessful attempts on our part to teach them (found it way to hard while keeping two others afloat), we ended up bartering swimming lessons and writing tutoring with a friend. LOVE IT. The boys are doing amazingly well after only three lessons so far.

--We had a staycation! See next blog post. :) After hitting a deer (well, it really hit us), and having to pay for van repairs, our planned vacation to PA went out the window. So we tried a staycation instead, and it was a hit! We planned it over a weekend, so Jeremy only had to take a Monday and a Friday off work. We did Atlanta one day, some crazy backyard water olympics, the zoo, and the capstone event: Six Flags! (Love the reading program!) We had an absolute blast and made some great memories. Success!


--We've been doing some fundraising, but not for us this time. Three families we love are adopting (see their blogs here, here, and here), and having just walked the difficult adoption road twice, we are so eager to help them. We've done a garage sale, some childcare for an event, and will soon be bringing back the birds' nest necklaces and unveiling some new designs. Stay tuned!

--Writing. Okay, I'm not writing much. But I'm actively praying, planning, and learning how this passion of mine fits in with my crazy life. I started by making myself a place to write (Stephen King would not approve of the lack of door--but he was never a mom of four mischief-makers, either. He would approve of the fact that the desk is in the corner, because "Life isn't a support system for art. It's the other way around.")




--My kids are still the funniest and most adorable kids in the world. See attached for proof.







(Iain and I on a date. He used his gift card to buy us both ice-cream.)
















Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Easter, 2013

We celebrated Easter this year at home. My mom, Jenna and family, and Haylee came, and we had a lovely dinner (our first dinner party on our new table made by Curtis!). My mom made Laina's dress, and bought coordinating outfits for the boys. Oh my, what a handsome group!








This year, we were home when our dogwood trees bloomed. It seems like every year we're gone over that week or so. This year, we soaked in all that beauty. I love our yard.


He is risen! I know I'm two months late, but He is still risen! :)

Friday, April 26, 2013

Two Years Ago, This


April and May bring so many important dates in the life of our family. There’s Referral Day, April 14, when we finally saw our baby girl’s face for the first time. There’s today, April 26, the most horrible day when we learned she was sick, and, numb and fearful and sad, packed into the night, kissed our boys goodbye, and drove until morning to fly to her side. And then happier days: April 28, when we met Laina and finally held our dream in our arms. May 6, the day we passed court and she became legally ours. And then the best day of all, May 19, when we stepped off the last plane and our boys ran into our arms and we were finally together. 



These dates fill me with so many memories and so many emotions. I can’t look at pictures of us as a brand new family of five without tears in my eyes, and I hope that wonder never wears off. Adopting Laina was hard, but so beautiful. Our trip to Rwanda was hard, but so beautiful. 


Living this life, with these four precious young souls, is hard, but so beautiful.

I am thankful anew for my miracle daughter when this time of year rolls around. I am thankful for the friends we travelled with, for the precious days in Rwanda where my heart continually returns, for the long days in Ethiopia. I am thankful that my family is here and that I get the unspeakable joy of spending my days with them.

I am thankful for Jesus who held us through the journey and holds us today, who moved mountains to bring our girl home and still moves in our lives. For the everyday miracles. Because never once did we ever walk alone. Never once did You leave us on our own. You are faithful, God, You are faithful.


Friday, March 29, 2013

On Nona

Birthday interviews with Iain, Cory, and Laina. It's a dangerous game. 


By Cory
What is your favorite thing about Nona?
That Mama is her kid.

Who does Nona look like?
Eli at Timothy. (??)

How old do you think Nona is?
Uh...113. Actually 30.

What would you do if you had the whole day to spend with Nona?
I'd go to Legoland with Nona, and that mini Lego Land, and I'd let her help me climb a tree, and I'd let her help build a log cabin, and we'd go on trails. And we'd have so much fun!

What would you give Nona for a birthday present, if you could give her anything?
A TV show of everything Hannah said. Like "bubba, listen, Dora."

What is the best thing you remember about Nona?
All of the fun stuff she took us on when Laina was getting adopted.

What do you like to do with Nona?
Go to Lego Land. I love my Nona!


By Iain

What is your favorite thing about Nona?
I think it is...hmm...that she takes us to fun places.

Who does Nona look like?
I don't know. She looks like Nona.

How old do you think Nona is?
33.

What would you do if you had the whole day to spend with Nona?
Go to Lego Land, go on trails. We'd do lots of fun things.

What would you give Nona for a birthday present, if you could give her anything?
I think it would be...so she wouldn't have to work on the computer, and she'd get $100 a day.

What is the best thing you remember about Nona?
I think it is when we were spending the night at Nona's, but for a week or two, and we'd do lots of fun things.

What do you like to do with Nona?
I like to go to fun places. I just love Nona.


By Laina

What is your favorite thing about Nona?
Cupcakes.

Who does Nona look like?
She's like Nona. Let's tell her.

How old do you think Nona is?
Five.

What would you do if you had the whole day to spend with Nona?
Hug her. That's all.

What would you give Nona for a birthday present, if you could give her anything?
I'd give her something sneaky. A present. (whispering) A big ball.

What is the best thing you remember about Nona?
Some cupcakes.

What do you like to do with Nona?
Hug her. That's all.


Happy last day of your birthday week. We love you, Nona!

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

My Kids Have Such Fun Grandparents

On both sides!

When my mom was here, we all went to Lego Land in GA. The kids LOVED it and still talk about it all the time.













Then when Grammy and Papa came, we went to Tellus Museum. It was a big hit the first time we went, and no less of a hit this time.